I’m totally stealing this idea from a fellow IComLeavWe writer….
Animated. Seriously, spend two seconds in my presence and you’ll be fending off flapping hands.
Babies. I love how they smell. Not just my own, all babies have this amazing smell. If it weren’t offensive I’m sure I’d just go around sniffing other peoples children.
Children. I have two and have birthed four. I have a thing for children.
Dog. I have one. His name is Muppet and he’s a poodle mix & the smartest yet most dopey animal I’ve ever owned. He drives me bonkers.
Education. I never went to college although I did passing well in high school, and I’m not sure I ever will. My passions don’t seem to lead that way, so only time will tell.
Family. My biggest passion and most favorite advocacy platform.
Grown In My Heart. The awesome adoption/alternative family building website I’ve begun writing at.
Home hunter. After years renting, my family is on a quest to be home owners again, hopefully this fall!
Infertility. I was very briefly touched by this little blend of hell and it made a profound difference in how I see the world.
Jaymee. The woman I hope to help make into a Mama, and someone who inspires me.
Knotts Berry Farm. I am a closet adrenaline junkie and LOVE the roller coasters at Knotts. I can’t wait for my children to be old enough to go!
Lupron. I start injections in just over a month and am nervous. Pathetically nervous.
Mother. It’s more then just raising children, but is so all-encompassing that there is no better way to describe it.
Nincompoop. Oh come on. It’s a fun word!
Optimistic. Not only is the glass always half full, I’m sure I can find some “happy” around here somewhere for your glass as well..
Photography. My favorite artistic outlet. I’m not great, but I love it so much that the quality isn’t that important.
Queen of the Mess. I’m not a tidy person. Actually that’s wrong. I, myself, am rather tidy. But my children and husband are not. So my house is in a constant state of mess. And I am the queen.
Restless. I’ve moved 15 times in the last 11 years. I just can’t seem to hold still, although I have told my children that our next home will be our “forever” home ( so I’ll aim to stay put for at least 5 years)
Surrogacy. My newest passion and something I’m excited I’m able to do.
Twins. My beautiful surro daughters, twins, were born on December 29th 2008 and I love them to pieces.
Unconditional. The love I have for my husband. There is nothing, literally nothing, that man could do that would dent my love for him.
Vampires. I am pathetically addicted to the Stephanie Meyer vampire series. It’s a very sad thing. I read the books at least twice a month.
Writer.I’m not great, and I’m definitely not frequent, but when I get the right inspiration nothing gives me a creative outlet like writing.
X-Linked Ichthyosis. A genetic condition my husband suffers that lead to a vasectomy after my son was born ( and unknowingly contributed to our problems TTC in the first place)
Yackity-yak. I like to talk. A lot. My favorite way to pass down time involves a glass of wine and a buddy to chat at.
Zihuatanejo. Where husband and I went for our pre-wedding honeymoon and were literally chased off a neighboring property by guards with guns. Scary.


I am stopping by via Jaymee’s blog! I would like to thank you and congratulate you for the great job you are doing and would like to wish you Good Luck!!! You are such an inspiration to me. I doubt I will ever be able to do what you are doing (from my current track record)… but just knowing that there are as “diverse” (as you described you would like your kids to be) thinking people as you in this world makes me feel positive in this rough journey!
Hi, i got to your blog from Jaymee, I think what you are willing to do to help others is beyond generosity, i admire you so much and all the others willing to give the most beautiful gift to an infrtile couple. love, Fran
I love your list. And, I love that you have real entries for X and Z instead of desperation entries like most of us make up.
~ICLW
Like Kristin, I am truly impressed by your X and Z listings! I hear you about the wanting to stay put somewhere for five years… that’s always my goal (have moved 59 times).
First – thanks for your comment and well wishes on my blog! I’m very excited for the upcoming addition and hope to post this birth story SOON!! Wow, I have never known a surrogate before and that is such an amazing gift you’re giving. Good luck with the Lupron next month!!
ilcw
Happy ICLW! Good luck with everything. What an amazing woman!
Love how much you can learn about someone from their A-Z list. Thank God for women like you (and my GC) who are willing to help we infertile!
ICWL
Did I tell you that when I was a kid my brothers and I thought that cicadas were actually called nincompoops? We would argue with adults over it.
Made my parents laugh so hard they might have even peed a little.
Fun list! I’m impressed with your letter “Z” in particular.
ICLW
Thank you so much for your ICLW comment!! That is incredibly helpful — no one else has explained the difference as whole belly vs. random spots. My pains have all been in random spots, mostly the same area where Baby A is, so I’m thinking it might be mostly the baby moving.
Good luck with the lupron next month and the cycle!
Fun list. I always liked Nincompoop too. It is just fun to say.
ICLW
What a great way to learn about you, your passions and hobbies! I totally admire that you are starting a surrogacy journey – I am an IM, so you have a special place with me!
Thanks for the beautiful comment you left on my blog…
Here’s wishing you and Jaymee sweet success!
Good Luck!
ICLW
here from ICLW!!!
Love your A to Z! Espec. the Yakity-Yak.
Very fun list and a good way to get to know a fellw Grown in my Heart writer
A great post. You have such a positive way about you. ICLW
what a great list of ABC’s! I also have flappy hand syndrome – I’m half convinced that if someone grabbed my hands and held them still I wouldn’t be able to speak.
Best of luck with the lupron shots, I hope theyr’e not as bad as you fear and good luck for the cycle!
Good work!!
You are an amazing woman! WOW! Surrogacy, that’s amazing! God bless you!!
~Michelle
I love your ABC’s.
Great job with the ABC’s. Sending you and Jaymee LOTS of luck and love!
*HUGS/ICLW*
Excellent ABC’s!
ICLW #31
Thank you so much for the comment and encouragement on my blog!! Congrats on your own miracles (even after you were told IVF was the only way!) and the two other miracles you gave birth two in December. Your story encourages me!
What a great intro list!
Kudos to you and Jaymee for your wonderful relatioship…best luck to you both througout the pregnancy!
*ICLW*